change extraUpFlags to extraSetFlags across the board

modules/homelab/tailscale/default.nix

@@ -19,11 +19,11 @@ in {
       authKeyFile = authkey_file;
       extraSetFlags = [
         "--advertise-routes=10.10.0.10/32" # advertise self
-      ];
-      extraUpFlags = [
         "--accept-routes=false" # true is equilivant to useRoutingFeatures = "client" (breaks shit)
         "--accept-dns=true" # explicitly allow resolved
       ];
+      extraUpFlags = [
+      ];
     };
 
     # network config

modules/system/tailscale/default.nix

@@ -16,7 +16,7 @@ in {
       enable = true;
       useRoutingFeatures = "both";
       #authKeyFile = authkey_file;
-      extraUpFlags = [
+      extraSetFlags = [
         "--accept-routes=true" # true is equilivant to useRoutingFeatures = "client" (breaks shit)
         "--accept-dns=true" # explicitly allow resolved
       ];